The Poverty of Stimulus—But in Reverse?

In linguistics, there’s a theory called the poverty of the stimulus: the idea that children acquire complex language despite being exposed to limited and imperfect examples. It’s often used to show that human minds come equipped with something internal—something innate—that helps them rise above what they’re given.

But what if we flipped that idea?

Some children grow up with every advantage—great schools, personal tutors, extracurriculars, international exposure—yet struggle to develop the hunger, resilience, or resourcefulness that children from humbler backgrounds often display. They have the richest stimulus, but not the drive.

Could it be that having everything dulls the edge that makes a person strive? That comfort can be its own kind of deprivation ?

:speech_balloon: What do you think? Can too much support, structure, or ease actually stunt personal growth? How do we raise children with character when they lack nothing? :backhand_index_pointing_down:

I wonder how to raise kids with a purposeful drivenness and not the destructive type described in “Ordering your private world”

Is that a book? Can you please provide a link? :thinking:

https://www.amazon.com/Ordering-Private-World-Gordon-MacDonald/dp/0785288643

It’s a good read so far

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